Not Me.

A Christian friend sent this video to me. It is incredibly moving, and I highly recommend you watch it, but the end of it got me thinking about something that rubs me wrong. More on that in a minute.  For my agnostic or atheist friends here… I hope you’ll hang with me, read this, and […]

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Let Your Faith Guide Your Healing

Let Your Faith Guide Your Healing   Just for a moment I will sit here and feel this sadness, thinking about the pain people feel… the suffering that is felt when we fall short and violate our own values, trespass on the values and over the boundaries of others; especially those we love.   I […]

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The Problem with Defensiveness

Recently, a young, married mother, was reflecting with me about several improvements in her life. Her voice suddenly shifted from upbeat to a mildly distressed tone as she talked about her fear of addressing conflict with her husband. After long standing patterns of conflict avoidance and then heated arguing, she was pretty sure things between […]

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